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Jun 16, 2023

30 Sex Toys That Will Make You Thank Yourself

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation from the links on this page.

"Dear self, thanks for the orgasms. Love, me."

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Promising review: "After my first use (shoutout for arriving in the mail charged) I came like NO OTHER! I didn’t know how I was going to feel about the tongue but it reminded me of the best head I’ve received so obviously I was in love. I mean it when I say my first immediate thought was, I will no longer need a man because I have this toy. 😂 So if you wanna ditch your man, woman, person, and whoever else, this toy will keep you satisfied probably better than they can. 12/10 rating." —TJ

Get it from Amazon for $25.99 (available in five colors).

Promising review: "Add this in to the fun and I'm a squirter. OK so I'm not a natural at squirting, but twice now I have managed to squirt (yes I am proud): once solo and once with a guy, and this little rabbit has tipped me over the edge. It was that much of a surprise that both times beds were ruined! It is great for a cheeky little play in the bath or shower and easy to use. Sometimes turning it off is a bit of a pain but that's a small sacrifice considering!" —StillSmiling

Get it from Lovehoney for $39.99.

The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. Also available in Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).

Promising review: "I’m a longtime vibe user for almost 20 years and I have no idea why I never bought this sooner. I guess I was originally turned off by the cord and wanted waterproof, but I rarely ever use one in the tub or shower so I decided to give it a try. And look, I can orgasm fairly easily, back to back. But this thing takes orgasms to another LEVEL. Seriously not kidding. Don’t rush it, try some edging... You won’t regret this purchase at all. Stop reading reviews and just buy it!" —Mila

Get it from Amazon for $60+ (available in four styles).

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There's a little bump at the top for an even more stimulating touch to the base of your tip, and ridges on the inside so that every movement offers stimulation.

I don't have a penis, but this looks incredible, and I want it.

Promising reviews: "Where do start!!!!! This has brought so much more spice into the bedroom. My bf was a bit scared at first, but this has changed our sex life big time!!! It’s a must, I don’t use it often, but I love it and so does my bf." —Denise S.

"A fantastic masturbation product. All frequencies have a lot to offer. The frenulum tickler is the big plus. This product can make me come in seconds." —Dale

Get it from Amazon for $23.99.

The set includes a vibrating butt plug, wireless remote, three B-Vibe enamel pins, carrying case, greeting card and sticker.

This 1.5-inch diameter plug has seven rotation patterns and six intensities to explore and stimulate your P-spot as you start (or continue) your journey into anal play. Also, it's splash-proof!

Looking for something a little larger? Check out the Rimming Plug 2 and the Rimming Plug XL, which have all the same features but a little more length.

Promising reviews: "I purchased the rimming plug petite after the thrilling experiences I had with the Snug Plug. The rotating beads in the neck on their own are amazing and then add in the vibrating tip... exhilarating!!! With the remote, you can just relax and discover what patterns and intensity turn you on. Very innovative." —TK (on Petite)

"My partner is skeptical when it comes to anal toys. But she absolutely loves this plug. Being wireless there is no messy wires in the way. And having rechargeable batteries is just fantastic. She loves the feel of the rimming action. She was satisfied many times. Best butt plug on the market hands down." —JAV (on Plug 2)

"I worked up to this for a while. I’m a straight male, heard about prostate play and the benefits, and began experimenting. This is the best product I have used! It’s still always a challenge to get in, which makes it that much better." —Ronan (on XL)

Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in three colors) or Amazon for $122.99+ (also available in Rimming Plug 2 and XL).

B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

Promising reviews: "I came across Volta in person at a shop over the summer. I was a little confused how it worked and passed on buying it. Am I ever sorry I didn't get it sooner! Volta was completely new sensations — pinpoint and broad all at once. I used plenty of lube, otherwise I think the tips could be a bit irritating. I found spots I'd never felt before around my clit and lips, giving me deep orgasms with Volta and nothing else. The rumbly vibes really penetrate. Teasing my clit while being penetrated with a dildo was a new height of heaven. So happy. I'm sorry I doubted you, Volta!" —Erin

"I've had a Volta for a couple years and recently bought a second cuz I love it so much!! I'm a trans man on HRT and the shape of the split tip is perfect for stroking my t-dick. The way it surrounds my junk is just so friggin good. It works really well for me with partners too, and they've all enjoyed the vibrations too. I just seriously cannot recommend this vibrator enough!!" —Jaggs

Get it from Fun Factory for $139.99 (also available in limited edition blue) or Amazon for $139.99+ (available in four colors).

At 7.5 inches long, this bulbous beauty steps into the ring and offers 2 pounds of weight for the full feeling your other toys might be missing.

Promising reviews: "The Pure Wand is a toy I ordered wondering if it was going to live up to the hype. I had read so many reviews with the reviewers almost having a cult-like worship of this toy that I half-expected to be disappointed… but I wasn’t. Everything about the Pure Wand is both surprising and yet not surprising — I knew it was going to be heavy, but you don’t really know until you hold it in your hand. I knew it was going to do amazing things to my prostate, but I was still surprised when it had me shaking with each stroke of the ball sliding over my P-spot. Overall, this wand is so perfectly made, and while expensive, worth it since it is going to last longer than I am." —J Johnson

"I have never been successful at making myself squirt, and did not have high expectations of this toy, but let me tell ya, IT IS AMAZING! It just won't stop! Buy this, buy a waterproof blanket and take the week off work! The only thing I don't like about it is that the way I have to hold it to get the angle right, ends up hurting the bottom knuckle of my thumbs. Also, it gets very slippery! Maybe I'll invest in a partner or weightlifting gloves to solve both of these problems! Lol." —Katie Moore

Get it from Amazon for $69.

BTW — this Amazon favorite sex toy is a big hit with Trans users who've experienced bottom growth, and there's also a more in-depth review written by an Intersex Male person, if you're interested.

Promising reviews: "There aren't many reviews on here from trans men, so I thought I'd throw my opinion out there in case there are other guys out there looking for something to spice things up. This toy is heavenly. It works well on many different parts of the body, and I have had fun exploring different places to try it: clitoris, nipples, etc. I love the simplicity of the vibration settings. You can turn the vibration up one level at a time, making it easy to build up to a climax slowly, or you can jump up multiple levels and get things done quickly, if that's your thing. I am so glad I bought this toy, and when this one finally dies I will buy another one. I've had it for a couple of months and it's held up great. 12/10 seriously recommend this product for anybody with a clitoris. You will NOT regret it." —a. b.

"Before this toy aka bae, I was a hoe. I've taken the steps to admit it and do something about it. Today, I can proudly say bae has cured me of my hoe-ly ways. This is the equivalent of the best head you ever had from somebody and taking that person's mouth home with you. Idk about you but I related heavily when Drake said 'I just want sum head in a comfortable bed, it could all be so simple.' 😍🥰 Life Is Good." —Dominique

Get it from Amazon for $39.95 (available in three colors).

This ear of corn is 7.9" long and 1.6" in diameter at its wider point, but if you want even bigger, don't worry, it has a larger counterpart that's 8.3" long and 2" in diameter. This dildo is also designed with thermochromatic pigments, so it changes from dark yellow to bright yellow as it warms up to your body temperature.

Promising review: "I bought this item because I was curious about what a 'vegetable' would be like. Let me tell you, it was absolutely amazing! I loved how it looks like uncooked corn before using and cooked after. And all the bumps and ridges from the kernels give the best massage. After using this, I honestly don't want to use any of my other insertable toys! 10/10 highly recommend." —Kitty

Get it from Spectrum Boutique for $109 or SelfDelve on Etsy for $98.83 (also available in large).

Self Delve is an artisan sex shop known for their line of realistic "Garden of Eden" inspired sex toys. All of their sex toys are created with premium silicone and thermochromatic pigments that change color when they reach body temperature.

Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.

Promising review: "Velvet has a great reputation with soft feeling sex toys and this one lives up to that reputation. I was skeptical about this toy at first because of the curvature/hook look, however I realized how easy it was for it to hit my G spot. And WOW. I didn't have to angle the toy as much as my other ones to get this to hit my G-spot and it was great. Plus, with its fast setting of its strokes, it felt great. Going to be my new go-to toy whenever I want instant pleasure." —Bree

Get it from Velvet Co. Thruster for $182 (available in four colors).

Three speeds and seven powerful vibration modes in the shaft and rabbit ears along with flexible anal beads offer a lot stimulation whether you like to use your toys alone or with a partner, for foreplay or the entire session.

Promising reviews: "OMG this thing is amazing!!!!! I used it with my partner last night and I had such an intense orgasm! It comes in a cute little box and has many different speeds. The bunny ears are perfect for the important clit simulation. It’s very effective and cute!!! Def recommended!!!!!!!" —Dina

"Hands down this has become my favorite toy! It’s powerful. It hits the spot. It delivers outstanding performance. The shaft and the ears and the beads all provide stimulating vibrations. Highly recommend this one." —Bylaws73

Get it from Amazon for $30.99 (available in violet and pink).

Yes, it's waterproof, so go ahead and play with it in the shower.

Promising reviews: "The last toy I bought before this one I literally said "holy (bleep)!" And didn't think it could get any better. It did. Right here. This thing? Buy it. Do it right now. It's 10000000% worth the money." —Shonn Pederson

"WARNING: This thing will make your toes do gang signs. I was skeptical, read all the reviews, and pulled the trigger. I’m telling you, if this thing was warm, with lube it would be identical to the real thing." —Juan Disimo

Get it from Amazon for $26.99 (available in four colors).

Promising review: "I have tried a LOT of different massagers over the years, but this takes the crown. Being able to adjust the position of the insertable end to target the prostate makes a HUGE difference. The customizability and the available patterns on the app for the strongest vibration in any massager I've ever had, make for the best stimulation I've ever received this way. Multiple dry o's and was able to wet o. This is my #1 now." —JS

Get it from Amazon for $129.

Enough people asked me, a sex toy writer, about the Rose that I finally decided to try it. Um, this thing is POWERFUL. The Rose is very easy to hold in the palm of your hand or place in your panties if you wanted. I really enjoyed it, and it definitely delivers a lot of squirm for its size...10 functions is more than enough. 😅 I would encourage using a water-based lube liberally around the opening of the toy, which is what I did, so the pulsation intensities aren't too much for the sensitive clit. Also, clean it thoroughly with a toy cleaner or antibacterial soap — those little petals can be difficult.

Promising reviews: "This is the first and only toy that has made me squirt! I didn’t know it was possible!! Gift yourself, and all of your girlfriends. It’s a must-have." —Flowerchild

"I never write reviews… But this truly got the job done!!! When I tell you it took less than five minutes! I definitely underestimated this toy. You really need this; it’s a game changer!" —Emily B.

Get it from Peepshow Toys for $41.99 (originally $59.99; currently only available in red) or Babeland for $64.99 (available in pink and red).

Peepshow Toys is an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique that promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and non-toxic materials.

Or grab the newer Bess 2 (also on Amazon), which includes an anal bead attachment and a heating element!

Promising reviews: "Beautiful, quality and you can't get bored with the different attachments. Very easy to keep clean which is high on my list. Perfect for multi-orgasmic people!" —Yvonne P.

"I already own the Hero from the Zalo Legends line and was so impressed with the overall quality and elegance of the toy I was dying to buy another Zalo product. I went with the Bess because I am familiar with this type of toy and love it. I love the attachments which make this toy versatile and the two separate motor heads in both ends of the toy. The Bess is absolutely stunning. The quality and workmanship is unparalleled (and this is coming from someone who only buys luxury brand sex toys). So far the little silicone ball attachment is my favorite. What makes the Bess stand out to me is that not only does it offer numerous strong vibration speeds but the different patterns are to die for. I highly recommend trying this toy especially it really stands out and above its competitors. My only warning is start on the lowest setting its a big jump in strength to the next setting and learn the settings before you try it out." —S. L.

Get it from Zalo or Amazon for $99 (available in three colors).

Promising reviews: "The single best sex toy for couples — women AND men. Regardless of whether you’re cradling your testicles with it or using it to bring your G-spot to new heights this gets into all of the fun-to-reach places." —Jordan

"My Crescendo made me feel whole again. The creativity of the app helps me personalize the vibrations and makes every solo pleasure session is completely different! Six months in and I am still discovering new ways to orgasm. Thank you, MysteryVibe." —Heather

Get it from MysteryVibe for $209 (originally $249).

This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?

Promising review: "My friend told me to buy this and that she orgasms in 40 seconds. I didn’t believe her, first time trying this I left a big wet patch on my grey sheets. I’m not even a huge toy fan but this has me wanting to use it every night! I love it!!" —Cookie

"I don’t think I was prepared for how amazing this actually is. You can orgasm in seconds if you’re not careful. The vibrations feel amazing. Me and my husband love using this, especially when he’s in my ass. There are literally no words, you’ll be seeing stars." —LaLaa

Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99 or Amazon for $66.96.

This 6.9-inch dildo offers just over 5 inches of insertable length above its realistic balls and is 1.81 inches wide.

Promising reviews: "This toy is great! As my first dildo, it’s definitely a great starter. And the prostate orgasm you get from this thing is AMAZING!!! I don’t know if it was the ribs on the toy or just how fast I was going, but it definitely does not disappoint. Even though it is a bit small for my hole now, it is still amazing!" —Venus

"Loved it! The ridges are amazing to rub on your clit to warm you up first, and then it's the perfect mixture of soft but firm with the ridges that makes for a quick and amazing time. The suction is great, too." —christine bragg

Get it from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in ten colors and two sizes).

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Promising review: "I decided to give this a try after not being satisfied with some of the other 'popular' toys and man I'm mad I even wasted money on anything else. I'm very big on oral stimulation and this gets the job done. The tongue is soft and big enough to feel like the real thing but not too rough even on higher speeds, as I've experienced with some other toys in the past. The suction is pleasant but strong so be careful lol. It's easy to clean and the battery life LASTS! I misplaced my charger and it lasted months on a single charge. Of course this will vary depending on how long and often you use it, but in my case I didn't need prolonged sessions cause it was effective quite quickly. If you are debating on trying, just go with it. You will not be disappointed." —Monique Wiggins

Get it from Amazon for $33.96+ (available in green, rose, and pink).

For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.

Promising reviews: "My favorite packer I’ve ever had. It’s a gentle packer (with coconut oil, of course) and a very affirming realistic toy. Great for solo play. The ribbed sleeve inside feels amazing. I could not get enough of it for months." —Lola

"My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).

New York Toy Collective is a Black-, woman- and queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.

Promising review: "This is a really fun toy. Definitely more of a flicker instead of a licker, but intense nonetheless. It's a different feeling from a simple vibrator because of the flicking motion, and it feels amazing. I have zero complaints. The material is soft and easy to clean. The little buzzy bulb on the end is really powerful too!" —T.D.H.

Get it from Amazon for $29.99.

Promising reviews: "Got this because my head can get sensitive. So being able to go all the way through is perfect. It gives a nice tight grip. Vibrations come through great. Absolutely amazing and one of my favorite toys now." —Shawn

"Product is a ton of fun. Lots of vibration variables. I don’t know if it’s great if you have an xl member. But it worked fine for mine. Still a tight fit though lol. All in all a great fun inexpensive product for your solo 'bate." —Damien Nova

Get it from Amazon for $29.99.

This dual-stimulating silicone toy offers 10 powerful vibration modes and 5 inches of insertable length to reach that sweet spot.

Promising review: "The color is beautiful and the toy is so soft to the touch. The vibration and mode options make for different experiences and there is something for everyone. The charging is quick and simple so you can get to playing soon after un-boxing. This thing works AMAZING! I was skeptical, but thought it was worth a shot. I am so glad I actually took a chance because this baby is the best thing I've ever owned. If you're thinking of giving it a chance do it! You won't be disappointed!" —Shelia

Get it from Amazon for $32.98 (available in purple and teal).

This is my personal go-to toy for when I want something quick and easy. I was never a big fan of oral sex, but Puff is great alone once you figure out the perfect position against your body. It gets louder (but still pretty discreet) with each intensity, but fortunately, I have made it through all five in one session and have mastered using the buttons in the dark (there is a blinking light feature though if you need it). IMO, Puff is a shower's best friend due to the waterproof design. I recommend it to literally everyone because of its range. Don't believe me? Check out my full-length review of Unbound's Puff!

Promising review: "Ok so aside from being so cute and aesthetically pleasing for something that I have to keep out of sight most of the time (heartbreaking), it does me so good! As my first real vibe it took a hot second to get a good feel of which settings and positions I agree with (third and fourth settings... chef's kiss) but I was able to get the hang of it quickly. It's got a good range of intensities and is suuuuper smooth and soft! A full charge will last quite a while as well!" —M.

Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in mint and pink).

Promising reviews: "This is one of the best massagers that I have ever purchased! It has 20 different patterns and eight vibration settings. The eighth one is just perfect! Everyone should purchase one of these for their 'sore muscles.' Strength: 10/10. 'Pain' relief: 1000/10 ;)" —Ashley

"BRO. CHEAP. AFFORDABLE, WORTH THE WAIT. Don’t listen to the bad reviews this thing is amazing, had my toes curled and legs shaking on contact, you won’t regret it." —Carson Moore

Get it from Amazon for $19.90+ (available in six colors).

Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.

Promising reviews: "My partner and I have had so much fun with this! It's so soft and all the different parts have such different sensations. The bullet is so strong too, I can only use it on the first setting!! As a nonbinary person I've been so pleased with this toy, it really alleviates any dysphoria I have about playing and it's such a relief! What a lovely toy from an incredible company!" —Kate

"I cannot say enough good things about this purchase. The Starsi knocked it out of the park! The surface area of the toy is wide enough to cover the entire internal and external portions of the clitoris complex. The grooves are both soft and distinctive enough to have a grind that is satisfying. Additionally, it is easy to hold and grip; no toys flying out from under you right when you most need them. 5/5 stars for the number of consecutive orgasms we had with it!" —Anonymous

Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (available in coral and pink).

Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.

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Make a night out of it with the Bringing Sexy Bath kit, which includes a Water Slyde, massage candle, arousal balm, hair towel wrap and privacy door hanger, so you can enjoy your me-time without interruption.

Promising review: "Know what, I was skeptical about it. But I really like how easy it is to use. Imagine being your very own pillow princess. You tell yourself to just relax and enjoy it. It’s empowering and refreshing. You could have your hands free for whatever — for an additional stimulant, for a good book, for anything on your phone, to massage a hair mask into your hair — or you could literally just kick back, because it does the trick on its own too." —Anonymous

Get it from Lovability for $35 (available in four colors).

This one has a suction base for hands-free play and a tapered design for easy insertion. Oh, can't neglect to mention that this dildo weighs 1.1 pounds, so you're definitely going to feel it.

Promising reviews: "This tentacle is so much fun! First off, the colors are so vibrant. It's the perfect size with a nice stretch near the bottom. And the suction cup works fantastic. Once it's down, it stays put. Oh, and the suckers feel amazing. I highly recommend this toy! It's great for beginners and the more experienced." —Jayde Dent

"Let me tell you in just two months that thing has changed our rear entry adventure entirely. My goal was just to take my husband comfortably, and this definitely achieves that. The suction is quite strong. He can even suction it to his body and use it on me. It makes the best mac and cheese sounds. The weight of it is nice. The texture is amazing. It has become a favorite toy. If you're considering it, just buy it. It's worth it." —NK

Get it from Amazon for $26.89+ (available in six colors).

Promising review: "I've had a few toys over the years and thought this would be fun but nothing special. I was TOTALLY WRONG! It's amazing. The size and shape made it easy to handle at a few angles and the various options are simple to go from teasing to pleasing. Fantastic on it's own and easy to use with a partner or during intercourse. Highly, highly recommend! Worth every bit of hype." —Taylor H.

Get it from Vush for $160.

Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that’s all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys that’ll rock your world and match your aesthetic.

Perfect for any research lover, or Virgo for that matter.

Designed with built-in sensors, the Lioness 2.0 helps track your body's response to arousal and stimulation to create "pleasure data" that you then can actually see and read on your phone! Idk about you, but I'd like to see what my body does during orgasm in a scientific manner. 🤓

Promising review: "For the longest time I was convinced that an orgasm before bed (nice and relaxed, ready for sleeping) was the best I'd ever have. Turns out, I'm more likely to have stronger, longer lasting orgasms in the afternoon, and shorter (but just as strong) orgasms first thing in the morning. Having access to multiple graphs, and being able to tag sessions with info that only I would know (after a work day, used THC lube, watched a sexy movie...) really helps me understand how different factors effect my experience, and keep track of details I would otherwise forget or dismiss. Data improves practice. Practice makes perfect. I'm getting so good at orgasms, you guys." —Stormy

Get it from Lioness for $229 (available in purple and gray).

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