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Apr 10, 2024

Improve Your Sex Life With These 35 Sex Toys And Products

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation from the links on this page.

Whether you want to have better solo or partnered sex, here are a few spicy products that'll definitely help you on that journey.

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This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.

Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.

"The angle was incredible for both of us. My wife had never experienced a G-spot and clit orgasm at the same time, ever! Also she didn’t want to stop! It is a bit firm, but we feel that lends to the pleasure. We have had other pillows in the past, but way too bulky and big. This is priced right too." —Kerry D.

Get it from Dame for $95.

TBH, this might be the squishiest toy I've ever handled. It's elegantly curved and kinda looks like a vagina, so all you have to do is fold and insert. It's designed to help enhance clitoral sensation, deliver deeper internal stimulation, and it even has a slightly flared base for discreet wear and effortless retrieval. Also, it comes in a variety of thicknesses, so you can choose whatever's most comfy for you and deliver that full feeling you've been craving.

Note: These plugs are intended for vaginal use only and not recommended for anal. Check out the following link in case you want to explore anal toys created with the same squishy silicone (these have a flared base for safety).

Promising reviews: "I just bought this along with the Tango X after getting tired of my rabbit vibe being too uncomfortable to sit with between orgasms. I'm 30, never been sexually active with a partner for various reasons and sex toys are something I've only recently begun to appreciate as I become more comfortable with intimacy and learn my own body before trying to share it with others. So I'd classify myself as a beginner and for that, this plug is amazing. I'm not able to handle anything large but the softness of this silicone is no joke — even the small was kind of daunting to me but it just popped right in, and I can barely feel it when I'm not playing — the most noticeable part is definitely the base, and even then it's not uncomfortably noticeable. This acts as a major upgrade to clitoral orgasms for me, it's like blended orgasms without all the effort and buildup that those normally take. And it's a lot of fun on its own, too!" —Kat

"I find myself very surprised, in a good way. This toy has impressed me so much that I had to leave a review, which I have never done on this site! It’s a great little thing to leave in for an hour or so and tease yourself, before some actual fucking. I used the size small, since too big can be a bit painful for me. It also stretched me out a bit so I probably would have been comfortable taking a size that normally would be too big for me. Left me dripping wet. Excellent on all fronts!" —Lesbian

Get it from Peepshow Toys for $42+ (available in four sizes and four colors).

At 7.5 inches long, this bulbous beauty steps into the ring and offers 2 pounds of weight for the full feeling your other toys might be missing. You can pop this metal toy in the fridge and let it chill, so you can really treat yourself, if you know what I mean.

Promising review: "Product will make your partner squirt. I would recommend pairing this with a magic wand as well. Problem my girlfriend and I encountered is it’s actually too intense for her, and now she requires to be tied up, so I had to make a follow-up trip to Home Depot. Solid rating at 5/5, will spice up your intimacy time." —M. Allen

Get it from Amazon for $69.

There's also a more in-depth review written by an Intersex Male person, if you're interested.

Promising reviews: "There aren't many reviews on here from trans men, so I thought I'd throw my opinion out there in case there are other guys out there looking for something to spice things up. This toy is heavenly. It works well on many different parts of the body, and I have had fun exploring different places to try it: clitoris, nipples, etc. I love the simplicity of the vibration settings. You can turn the vibration up one level at a time, making it easy to build up to a climax slowly, or you can jump up multiple levels and get things done quickly, if that's your thing. I am so glad I bought this toy, and when this one finally dies I will buy another one. I've had it for a couple months and it's held up great. 12/10 seriously recommend this product for anybody with a clitoris. You will NOT regret it." —a. b.

"Before this toy aka bae, I was a hoe. I've taken the steps to admit it and do something about it. Today, I can proudly say bae has cured me of my hoe-ly ways. This is the equivalent of the best head you ever had from somebody and taking that person's mouth home with you. Idk about you but I related heavily when Drake said 'I just want sum head in a comfortable bed, it could all be so simple.' 😍🥰 Life Is Good." —Dominique

Get it from Amazon for $34.91+ (available in three colors).

For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.

Promising review: "My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth-wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).

New York Toy Collective is a Black- and queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.

The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos), and the vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.

Promising review: "This is a great addition to solo or couples' play. The ring is super stretchy and can fit around any of our toys. Loved when she was on top. She was able to grind on it without having to hold a heavy vibrator. Super quick and easy to clean and charges quickly! It's pretty quiet considering how intense the vibration can be." —Howard Martin

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.

Promising reviews: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews

"My fiancé got this for me and let me just say…. This makes the world of difference in comfort, and pleasure. Jokes aside, I’ve never had a punani tsunami from pegging until this thing. Worth the buy. No sore spots and everyone wobbles away happy. 😉" —melissa mitchell

Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).

This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25 inches wide.

Promising reviews: "Works great with a harness and pretty much any strap-on dildo my partner and I own. Would highly recommend. Easy clean and came exactly as described. Super-soft material. 5/5." —Jacquie

"This made the base of so many dildos much more pleasurable to me! I use it with and without the harness... Sometimes I will put it on the base of a dildo that I am using manually and then grind against it. Great stimulation!" —Blank

Get it from Wet for Her for $35.95 (originally $39.95; available in black or blue).

Promising reviews: "I absolutely cannot say enough great things about these straps. They are versatile, discreet, convenient, extremely durable, well-made, and a ton of fun. Highly recommended for anyone who loves to spice things up in the bedroom." —AB

"These are very good. Wasn't sure if the velcro would be strong enough, but it was! She loved them and I loved them. If you are looking for a great addition to fun in the bedroom I highly recommend getting these." —N. W.

Get it from Amazon for $46.08.

This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?

Promising review: "My friend told me to buy this and that she orgasms in 40 seconds. I didn’t believe her, first time trying this I left a big wet patch on my grey sheets. I’m not even a huge toy fan, but this has me wanting to use it every night! I love it!!" —Cookie

"I don’t think I was prepared for how amazing this actually is. You can orgasm in seconds if you’re not careful. The vibrations feel amazing. My husband and I love using this, especially when he’s in my ass. There are literally no words, you’ll be seeing stars." —LaLaa

Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99 or Amazon for $69.10.

Check out these other rabbit and dual-stimulating vibrators if you're in the market!

Ummmmm, raise your hand if you're sick of lubricant and / or bodily fluids ruining your bedsheets and blankets. *raises 🤚* These blankets offer four layers of protection, plus a cotton or fleece top layer to keep you comfy. This innovative bed (or couch) accessory comes in 60x80 (full-size blanket), 30x60 (throw blanket), and 30x30 (small blanket).

Promising review: "I got the small waterproof blanket in the cutest print!!! Little Halloween flowers that make me so happy! But what really makes me happy is how I stopped staining my mattress!!! I use this for a week every month while I free bleed. And my husband always gets excited when I pull it out because he knows we’re about to have a lot of messy, wet fun!!! I didn’t know a blanket could change and improve my life but this one definitely does!!!" —Lillie Morris

Get the full-size blanket from TRB Creations for $190 (originally $200 and available in eight colors).

Black- and queer-owned shop TRB Creations makes these blankets for multipurpose uses and as a sustainable alternative to rubber or plastic sheets, puppy pads, and towels to protect mattresses and other furniture from bodily fluids and even oils.

Or grab the newer Bess 2 (also on Amazon), which includes an anal bead attachment and a heating element!

Promising reviews: "Beautiful, quality and you can't get bored with the different attachments. Very easy to keep clean which is high on my list. Perfect for multi-orgasmic people!" —Yvonne P.

"I already own the Hero from the Zalo Legends line and was so impressed with the overall quality and elegance of the toy I was dying to buy another Zalo product. I love the attachments which make this toy versatile and the two separate motor heads in both ends of the toy. The Bess is absolutely stunning. The quality and workmanship is unparalleled (and this is coming from someone who only buys luxury brand sex toys). So far the little silicone ball attachment is my favorite. What makes the Bess stand out to me beyond what I already mentioned was that not only does it offer numerous strong vibration speeds but the different patterns are to die for. I highly recommend trying this toy especially it really stands out and above its competitors." —S. L.

Get it from Zalo for $99 or Amazon for $96+ (available in three colors).

This set is perfect for anyone interested in anal sex and wanting to work their way up to girthier or heavier toys. Since they're glass, these training toys also allow for temperature play and can be used with any kind of lubricant you choose.

Get it from B-Vibe for $90.99.

B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

And definitely check out the brand on Amazon if you want more style options!

Promising reviews: "Sexy and fun! Thick yet comfortable straps and many points of adjustment leading to a custom fit. A beautiful piece at a great price. You can easily wear whatever bra and panties you like underneath or go naked if that’s more your speed. A nice piece for those of us who are a little more busty as there's nothing in the harness that will squish larger breasts and make them look deformed. Only quibble is that it can be hard to unhook the straps when it’s time to take off the piece but it’s so sexy and comfortable, you may just want to leave it on!" —K. Taylor

"I’m 5’0" and two hundred and something pounds, and not gonna lie, it’s surprisingly comfortable. It’s more stretchy and adjustable than it looks. I was worried I was going to look like a roasted ham in it but nah it’s just fine. Totally worth the money." —Alexa dejulian

Get it from Amazon for $35.50+ (available in 14 colors and fits M–XXL).

This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.

Promising reviews: "This is definitely worth the price. It has great variety in the sizing for the wearer. You can use a vibrating dildo with it and you feel the stimulation. Also there are pockets you can add items to for your stimulation. The ring is very hard to get the dildo into, but it works out because it does not come out during use. The comfort to the wearer is phenomenal. Recommend for any experience user." —Customer DBG

"I was so exhausted one night after my partner and I had some fun, that I fell asleep with it on and forgot it was still there. It’s extremely comfortable but super sturdy. Also, very easy to throw it in the mesh bag it comes in and toss it in the laundry. I let it air dry though. Great product!" —divertida9

Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).

The one pictured on the left has a lot of reviews and is the D3 Summer Fling dildo ($61.99 on Amazon), boasting an 8" length (7" insertable) and 1.75" width. There are five various dildos in the line, each one with a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. If you want more specifics on why I think these dildos are so perfect, check out my review on the Purple Rain D2 Avant dildo.

Here are the specific widths of the dildos in this collection: D1 Hot 'N' Cool (1.5 inches), D4 Sexy in Pink (1.5 inches), D5 Sin City (1.75 inches), D6 Electra (1.75 inches), D2 (1.5 inches).

Promising reviews: "I love sex toys, this one is the newest one in my collection. This brand makes the most soft and sensational sex toys that I've ever used. The feel is wonderful to the skin, and if you're looking for something more on the bigger side, this is the right one for you. I generally prefer dildos with a more narrow head, so if you're like me, you may have a hard time (pun intended) getting this one in, but I took on the challenge. I just had to get very lubricated and extra turned on in order to fit this big boy, but in the end, I had that feeling of fullness that I was looking for accompanied by the amazing texture from the toy and ended up coming super hard and feeling completely satisfied. Highly recommend for that lonely weekend or with some fun with your partner. :)" —Satisfied customer (on Summer Fling)

"Yes, it’s a little big. But it feels amazing and smooth. Anal has been nothing but great." —D. Cookie

Get it from Amazon for $58.99+ (available in assorted colors and sizes).

This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation. Though it's stretchy, Ohnut is designed in two sizes: Classic and Wider, which can be determined based on condom sizing!

Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.

Get it from Ohnut for $75 (only available in jade and wider).

Ohnut Co. is a women-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

It's a ramp! It's an ottoman! It's improving your sex life! This convertible cushion is created with high-density foam for comfortable support and a moisture-resistant lining underneath the removable cover. Flip the furthest side of the ramp on top for a versatile block shape or use the classic ramp shape to help find the right positions for superior stimulation alone or with a partner.

Promising reviews: "Awesome product. The flip capability opens up possibilities. The Liberator website has some suggestions of use, but with some creativity there are many others. This paired with the Wedge and Axis have had plenty of fun results. Highly recommend. Does clean very easy. The cloth outside does attract dog hair, but vacuums off easily enough." —J.B.

"Great addition to add some spice. Fabric is soft and soft stuff gets stuck to it easily. Thank goodness the cover comes off so you can wash it." —jen bardsley

Get it from Amazon $169.99+ (available in four colors).

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This waterproof vibe is great whether solo or with a partner, since its slim design allows it to fit between multiple bodies.

Promising review: "I consider myself a connoisseur of clitoral air toys ;-) and this one is incredible as it delivers multiple orgasms easily. It's easy to hold, the buttons are not too hard to find with wet fingers, it charges quickly and the settings have something for everyone. I'm partial to the low rumbling vibes/suction (settings 4 and 5) but if you prefer something more buzzy, the higher settings should please you. I did notice quite a jump in sensation between settings 3 and 4 so if you have an ultra sensitive clit, be mindful when increasing from setting 3. Try holding it horizontal for a different sensation. The We-Connect App works well and is fun to use. Treat yourself or someone else as you can't go wrong with this guy!" —Claire V.

Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $149 (available in pink and midnight blue).

FYI, be careful during play and communicate with your partner, because this toy is also technically a medical device and if pressed too hard could potentially puncture the skin!

Promising reviews: "All Imma say is fellas get you one! Center of the back from the base of the neck straight down between the cheeks you won’t regret it! Trust me!" —Jason Love

"Love this item. It adds just the right amount of sensation when you are running it over your partner's skin. A blindfold adds to the feeling." —Scott A. Misko

Get it from Amazon for $9.49.

Promising review: "I was so nervous about trying Eva due to the design and diagrams provided on the website. When I saw there were free returns, I decided, 'Why not?' When Eva arrived, the instructions recommended I try it out without a partner first, so I did, apprehensively. My mind was BLOWN. Not only does Eva make my personal orgasms so much better (and I get to them much quicker), but it has also made reaching simultaneous climax a lot easier to achieve with my husband. I love love love Eva, and can’t recommend this product enough! Even if you are nervous, trust me — you want to try it out." —Louisa C.

Get it from Dame for $135 (available in orange and ice) or Amazon for $139.99+ (available in four colors).

Promising reviews: "I discovered that for me, the toy works best held in what seems like an upside down position, as that better follows the upward curve of my erection. Whee! Full orgasm." —Joan P.s.s.a.a.a.f.a.s.

"I love to use this for a nice long edging. You can just experiment with the various settings and vibrations to see what works for you. Also, I rotate it to different positions to change the sensation. The customer service is amazing. I had a problem with charging and they resolved my issue very quickly!" —Steve

Get it from Fun Factory for $129.99 or Amazon for $80+ (available in three colors).

These cotton-blend boxers are double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!

Promising review: "Rodeoh boxers are possibly one of the best inventions for a lesbian couple. They are just 'normal' high quality boxers that my wife wears under normal clothing and within seconds we can be 'playing!' None of the faffing about with silly harnesses, it’s just simply put on and put in!" —S&V

"I am a bisexual female, and my boyfriend happens to be a bisexual male. Rodeoh opened a whole new world for us. Strap-ons have been very awkward and uncomfortable for me, which took away from the experience. This morning we were finally able to make love in an entirely new way. I feel in love with my sexy bottom boy all over again, and then all we had to do was slide them on and start round two. Thank you so much for such an awesome product!" —Carmen

Get the banana print from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available in sizes L–3X).

Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.

This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.

Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit — or any of their beginner products for that matter." —Allyson

Get it from B-Vibe for $111.99 (available in black and blue).

Promising review: "I am just starting to experiment with nipple clamps, but I think I found my favorite. Honestly, other clamps looked a little intimidating but these look like a beautiful piece of jewelry. They're so easy to customize pressure (especially for a novice) and it's nice having the versatility to choose whether or not you want to use the clit clamp. I did notice that the clamp guard did stick to my skin when taking them off, but next time I will try using a little lube beforehand. Overall, I would definitely recommend. I am buying a second pair to give to my sex therapist so she can show them in her practice, especially for newbies exploring pleasure. :)" —L J.

Get it from Unbound or Amazon for $35.

You can wear this versatile ring looped around the base of the penis, the shaft and balls or even near the tip for different sensations.

Promising reviews: "The silicone material is soft and stretches perfectly. Fits very nicely and takes erections to the next level! Your partner will notice a big difference I'm willing to put money on it! Very easy to use and simple toy that is super easy to clean and even enhances pleasure. Can be a little uncomfortable putting on and taking off but a little bit of lube fixes that issue easy. Highly recommend everyone try one of these!" —Brandon

"I’m not the most well endowed (girth not super lengthy) and it was a perfect snugness. The hole for your bean bag is comfortable as well, never felt any bunching or biting. Overall very well worth it!" —Jeremy Munson

Get it from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in four colors).

This unique grinder comes with two straps, so you can attach it to a pillow, bathtub ledge or even your lover's thigh or forearm. It can also be used as a sleeve when held in your hand.

Promising reviews: "I didn't know what to expect but I'm here to tell you guys... With plenty of lube it provides a TON-OF-FUN..! A nice addition to my toy box." —Warren Pouyer Jr.

"This is something totally different that I didn't know I needed in my life until I saw it. I've only tested it out for a small amount of time but I already tell it was a good buy. I am an extremely indecisive person so I said 'glow in the dark' and 'surprise me' and I received a beautiful purple pour. I would recommend this for people who want to try something new and / or dislike penetration. It has a good feel to it and it comes with straps for unlimited possibilities." —Quinten Forrest

Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $54.

Fantasticocks is a woman- and queer-owned sex boutique based in Ohio, creating premium-quality silicone sex toys designed for all bodies and desires.

Promising reviews: "Was unsure how well this toy would work... Most incredible stimulating toy I have ever bought! Very strong motors, serious thrust, and incredible vibrating. It feels like the real thing! I enjoy it immensely! Easy to clean and the remote is very easy to use. Charge lasts for a long time. Would highly recommend — it almost makes hookups unnecessary." —jack clopein

"Nice size — it’s giving boyfriend dick. Really mixed my guts; the vibration on the gooch part is really nice and smooth. If you’re worried about the c-ring part, it’s very stretchy and not tight at all, very comfortable to use. Only gripe is that it comes out easily, but that’s a plus when you’re finished. Can’t wait to use it with my partner." —Ikenna

Get it from Amazon for $36.99+ (available in four styles).

The Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. It's also available in Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).

Promising reviews: "I bought this for my wife and that's one of the best decisions I've made when it comes to adding spice in bedroom. Get it." —Jayjay (on Rechargeable)

"I'm just going to be honest. First of all we ALL KNOW why we are purchasing this. I purchased this to add more fun to my relationship with my girl. Well let me tell you. Ever since I purchased this, I have had to wash my bed sheets waayyyyyyyyyy more than usual HINT HINT LOL." —Gabe_8ft (on Rechargeable)

Get it from Amazon $129.90.

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Promising reviews: "It looks and feels amazing. It feels like the real thing. I also like the fact that it bends to your body to hit the right spots. The best dildo I’ve bought so far." —Robbie

"This dildo is AMAZING. I just used it on my partner and had to rush here to write a review because it was just such a pleasure to use. She loved the big head, and I loved how it kept its position. My partner has a big butt so we’ve always chosen lengthier dildos, but sometimes, that loses girth, and I can’t have the amount of push behind my thrusts like I would like, but this one was a great length AND girthy enough to translate some good fill. It is soooooo worth the money. This is our first NYTC dildo, but it will never be the last. I love that the company has handmade products made by the queer fam. Nobody gets our bodies like we do, and this product showed that for sure. I can’t wait to receive it! Thank you so much for doing you and making this amazing dildo!" —Armand Goldman

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $179 (available in eight colors).

It's me. I am 'bators. JK, but seriously — I love this toy. And every time I think another one has shown up to take its place, I am reminded by the compact size, easy handling, and very very discreet noise (when pressed against the body)...that this toy is my ride or die. I tell everyone I know, and now I'm telling you. Never used suction? Get the Puff. New to sex toys? Get the Puff. Just want to expand your ever-growing collection? Puff. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my review of why Unbound's Puff is my favorite sex toy.

Promising review: "I’m new to the all of this. My friends literally raved about Puff for a year before I finally decided to get one. I did not know…I could feel like that. It is amazing. It took me some time to fully utilize the suction feature in the Puff, but the vibration itself is *chef's kiss*. I also used it once during sex with my boyfriend, and phew!!! I don’t even know if I have any words. Great for beginners!" —B.

Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).

This bondage set boasts various items made of leather and nylon, including one pair of handcuffs, one pair of ankle cuffs, one pair of nipple clamps, a whip, a rope, a ball gag, a feather tickler, a collar, a hogtie, a blindfold and a paddle.

Promising review: "I was surprised how many pieces came with this set. The fur lining makes the cuffs and collars very comfortable, and uses buckles rather than velcro. The set is shown on women but I used it on a man. Some of the chain link could probably be broken through, if they wanted to. Impact play items work well, and the variety of items give this set a lot of options. I used the cuffs with a bed strap system I already had." —Anonymous

Get it from Amazon for $32.49.

BTW, some reviewers with sensitive skin or eczema really love this lube, and others don't. Remember to always do a test on your arm or leg when it comes to any skin products, or look into this aloe-based lube that has the National Eczema Association Seal of Acceptance!

Promising reviews: "With your partner or solo stroke over the sink, 😍 💪 this is great lube. Works with rear entry or regular penetration. 3rd order. 🫶" —XXX

"This just gave sex a whole new meaning for me. I'm a woman who tends to just naturally get dry after a few rounds, but baby, this right here? Holy grail. It does a good job at not getting sticky and makes the experience 10x more pleasurable. The orgasms were A1!" —Kiha Stowe

Get it from Amazon for $9.99.

Not sure which lube to get? We've got a round-up to help you figure out which lube is right for you.

Promising reviews: "OK, how do you review lubes? Let’s see... This one is my favorite. It’s slippery and last longer than other products. Whether you are rubbing one out or putting it in, this lubes does well. It doesn’t not make your vagina or booty burn. That’s a plus. To clean off is not as easy. You need water and soap. That’s why it lasts longer than other products." —Enrike

"My boyfriend and I love this lube. This lube can be a little messy but it works! I love it because I can slide right into my boyfriend without any issues. He loves it because he can do his thing without any issues. Depending on the day, the lube can last longer than me. I highly recommend especially if you plan to do anal. Enjoy!" —ManlyMan

Get it from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in assorted sizes).

This creamy lube is created with palm butter, grape-seed oil, and vitamin E for a moisturizing and velvety feel wherever it's applied.

Promising review: "There are no words for how good this lube is. It is amazing for long sessions, it feels incredible, it's .... I damn near got misty that someone, somewhere, had the exact same need as I did, and then invented something that solved that need. Serious, historic tip of the cap. To potential purchasers thinking they will get a sample size to start — fuck that. You have found the product you are looking for." —Rick Willet

"Great to use as a moisturizer and even better as lube! I've purchased this several times over the last couple of years and my partners love it as much as I do!" —Joseph Gurk

Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co. for $3+ (available in six sizes).

The Butters Hygienics Co. is a Black- and Queer-owned business based in Michigan that creates products using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.

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