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Jun 10, 2023

28 Sex Toys That'll Deliver The Best Head Of Your Life

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation

We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation from the links on this page.

These toys will l-l-l-lick you from your head to your toes...and then some. 😮‍💨

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This tiny toy has 10 vibrations and five intensities for you to explore and a rechargeable battery that will probably outlast you (and if it doesn't, reviewers swear by their customer service).

Promising reviews: "This little toy is the best! It’s incredibly effective and easy to clean. The battery lasts forever and I love how many different settings it has. No matter what mood I’m in the Tulips always works! Their customer service also rocks! They answer concerns immediately. They have a customer in me for life!" —Adrienne

"I was a bit skeptical at first with this toy — boy was I wrong! In the time since I have owned this toy, it has become my favorite. 10 settings and multiple vibration strengths equal orgasms every time! If I could give it more than 5 stars, I would. Sadly, my Tulips died after a few months of ownership. Sweet Vibrations stands by their lifetime guarantee. When I contacted them to replace it, customer service had not one, but two replacements out to me in less than a day. Would buy again!" —missspacecase

Get it from Amazon for $54.99 (available in two colors).

It's me. I am 'bators. JK, but seriously — I love this toy. And every time I think another one has shown up to take its place, I am reminded by the compact size, easy handling, and very very discreet noise (when pressed against the body)...that this toy is my ride or die. I tell everyone I know, and now I'm telling you. Never used suction? Get the Puff. New to sex toys? Get the Puff. Just want to expand your ever-growing collection? Puff. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my review of why Unbound's Puff is my favorite sex toy.

Promising reviews: "Listen. All I can say is…buy this immediately. I fell out of bed the first time I used it, saw god for the first time, and was convinced I broke my 🐈. 10/10! Also hella cute, charges fast, and you can take it in the shower! Perf for beginners <3" —kat

"I’m new to the all of this. My friends literally raved about Puff for a year before I finally decided to get one. I did not know…I could feel like that. It is amazing. It took me some time to fully utilize the suction feature in the Puff, but the vibration itself is *chef's kiss*. I also used it once during sex with my boyfriend, and phew!!! I don’t even know if I have any words. Great for beginners!" —B.

Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).

Yes, it's waterproof, so go ahead and play with it in the shower.

Promising review: "I regret not buying this years ago. Cleanup can be tricky. Yes you can just shoot water thru it via a faucet, but as you know, our sauce tends to thicken when water hits it. Also, I don't know if this could handle a larger fella. I'm textbook average and it really, really took a good push to go in. But once in, great googly moogly... feels extremely real, a little tight but that's absolutely not a bad thing. The suction gets a little intense, you can unscrew the back plate to allow for air flow, but be warned if you lubed it up good, you're gonna drip out the end. I had seen some users mention warming it up, that sounds nice. Personally, mine was quite cold at the time and that didn't feel bad at all. I immediately called my friends and sent share links for them to check it out. Cannot believe I went so long without getting something like this. My only fear, is I start purchasing other toys and they'll never compare. This thing really slaps." —Levi Burns

"This is just awesome. We noticed added stamina after a couple of sessions. Excited doesn't describe how we truly feel. Can't believe how real it feels. Team it with some oral and wow. This does get you more stamina, just after a couple of rounds, it feels too damn good to hold on." —Kalei Stour

Get it from Amazon for $29.99 (available in four colors).

This new and improved suction vibrator by Womanizer boasts 14 intensity levels, an autopilot function that makes sure things never get too predictable during use, Smart Silence technology to make sure it's only making noise when touching the body and it's waterproof. *exhale* So yeah, just click *add to cart*.

Promising reviews: "This is my first clitoral toy and it did not disappoint! I achieved orgasm in less than five minutes and it was the best sensation. A bit pricey but definitely worth it!" —Charlotte Martin

"I’ve used knock-off versions of Womanizer’s Pleasure Air technology, seduced by the lower price tag, but nothing compares to the real thing. And PREMIUM 2 is the best of them all. It has more intensity levels than any other toy (14!) and also has this amazing autopilot feature where the toy takes control of how powerful the vibrations are so you can just sit back and relax... brilliant!" —S Müller

Get it from Womanizer or Amazon for $199 (available in 5 colors).

And if you really want to splurge, here's even more sex toys over $100 to consider.

Promising reviews: "After my first use (shoutout for arriving in the mail charged) I came like NO OTHER! I didn’t know how I was going to feel about the tongue but it reminded me of the best head I’ve received so obviously I was in love. I mean it when I say my first immediate thought was, I will no longer need a man because I have this toy. 😂 So if you wanna ditch your man, woman, person, and whoever else, this toy will keep you satisfied probably better than they can. 12/10" —TJ

"With the price of this I didn't expect much...but WOW. I am shocked at how awesome this little gadget is; so awesome in fact I don't even get two minutes in using before it's game over for me (in a really good way). It's easy to use alone or during intercourse for extra intensity (good lordy), waterproof, soft/smooth and easy to clean, charged fast and holds the charge for a shockingly long time. It has more speed/intensity options than I need but having the option to go up is nice. Overall very very happy I stumbled across this little gem." —Kieley Sue

Get it from Amazon for $35.98+ (available in four colors).

Promising reviews: "OMG this is the most incredible vibrator I have ever owned! The sensation is like oral on steroids times a thousand! So. Much. Pleasure! Trying really hard not to get addicted! Love all the settings and variations (and I'm usually adverse to all the patterns on a standard bullet vibrator but maaaan the ones that go like a wave...Jesus!). Easy to use. Easy to clean. Made me squirt for the first time in years. Sensational! " —Chloe M.

"I was a little skeptical if I'm honest, but after seeing so many good reviews I thought I'd give it a go as it was at a discounted price. Well, I can happily say I love it! I was amazed at how quickly I came — literally a couple minutes — and the level of pressure was really good for me on the lowest setting. I tried the slightly higher intensity level which was good too, but not any higher personally. I really like the mixture of patterns too...keeps it interesting and some are actually pretty close to the sensation of real oral." —Susanna K.

Get it from Vush for $160.

Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that’s all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys that’ll rock your world and match your aesthetic.

Promising reviews: "I discovered that for me, the toy works best held in what seems like an upside down position, as that better follows the upward curve of my erection. Whee! Full orgasm." —Joan P.s.s.a.a.a.f.a.s.

"I love to use this for a nice long edging. You can just experiment with the various settings and vibrations to see what works for you. Also, I rotate it to different positions to change the sensation. The customer service is amazing. I had a problem with charging and they resolved my issue very quickly!" —Steve

Get it from Fun Factory for $129.99 or Amazon for $114.97+ (available in three colors).

This 1.5-inch diameter plug has seven rotation patterns and six intensities to explore and stimulate your P-spot as you start (or continue) your journey into anal play. Also, it's splash-proof!

Looking for something a little larger? Check out the Rimming Plug 2 and Rimming Plug XL, that have all the same features but a little more length.

Promising reviews: "I've been selling this toy at my shop for the past 2 years and recently invested in it and I found myself asking one huge question: why oh why did I wait so long to get it? Out of all my anal toys this is my favorite by far!" —Melissa

"I used this toy on myself and was thrilled by the strong vibrations and the rimming sensation of the stem. The larger rimming toy seemed intimidating, but this toy comes in a size that I can use casually without having to do a ton of serious warm up every time I want to use it. I wasn't sure if I would like the rimming aspect but found that it was an exciting new addition to an already great butt toy. Overall, I'm very excited about this toy and would recommend it." —Rimming Lover

Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in three colors).

B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

There's also a more in-depth review written by an Intersex Male person, if you're interested.

Promising reviews: "There aren't many reviews on here from trans men, so I thought I'd throw my opinion out there in case there are other guys out there looking for something to spice things up. This toy is heavenly. It works well on many different parts of the body, and I have had fun exploring different places to try it: clitoris, nipples, etc. I love the simplicity of the vibration settings. You can turn the vibration up one level at a time, making it easy to build up to a climax slowly, or you can jump up multiple levels and get things done quickly, if that's your thing. I am so glad I bought this toy, and when this one finally dies I will buy another one. I've had it for a couple months and it's held up great. 12/10 seriously recommend this product for anybody with a clitoris. You will NOT regret it." —a. b.

"Before this toy aka bae, I was a hoe. I've taken the steps to admit it and do something about it. Today, I can proudly say bae has cured me of my hoe-ly ways. This is the equivalent of the best head you ever had from somebody and taking that person's mouth home with you. Idk about you but I related heavily when Drake said 'I just want sum head in a comfortable bed, it could all be so simple.' 😍🥰 Life Is Good." —Dominique

Get it from Amazon for $42.95 (available in three colors).

For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.

Promising review: "My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth-wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).

New York Toy Collective is a Black- and queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.

Oh, it's cute. And it's cheap. This single-use toy has a 90-minute run time, and it'll get you off exactly like that, but who's mad about it?

Promising review: "I am not deprived in the oral department by any means but I can sometimes take a while to get there. We’ve always wanted to try one of these toys and you can’t beat the price point here. I wasn’t sure what to expect and I wasn’t expecting much. But OMG! This little thing set me off in less than 10 seconds. The 90-minute battery life will last forever at that rate. It’s going to be a lifesaver for my husband on those days I can’t seem to relax enough for him to get the job done." —Mama J.

Get it from Amazon for $9.95.

Promising review: "I bought this toy because I previously bought a couple of other toys from the VeDO brand and let me just say... this is the BEST OUT THERE! I was sorta skeptical at first but this thing had me squirting in SECONDS. Turned that thing up all the way and had orgasmed in just minutes. The comfy finger hold, the soft silicone, the user friendly features, the fact that it's waterproof — I love everything about this toy and I 100% recommend to anyone looking for a powerful fun toy! It's my new favorite for sure!!" —Amber

Get it from Spectrum Boutique for $55.99 (available in three colors).

Promising review: "Omg. Don’t have anyone to 👅 you?? NOT A PROBLEM ANYMORE. Wow, these toys are getting so advanced it’s amazing. Feels sooo similar to a real tongue. And has a vibrator on the other end so it’s even better. 😂 This made me climax in a way I never have before. 10/10 recommend." —Mel

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

It's also waterproof and includes a travel-friendly case for when you want to take it on the go! FYI, Some reviewers say that it doesn't work well for anyone with above average girth, so make sure to take into account the measurements!

Promising reviews: "I have several toys of this type, but this one is definitely the very best. Might make your eyes pop out of your head while you use it!!! Mm, mmm good! Unbelievably great feeling due to the various textures inside, and you’ll pop a big juicy good one every time. It really makes a great sound as you stroke up and down… Sounds kinda like the real thing and it’s a huge turn on." —n3ptune

"Listen... my chest hair stood up, as well as all of the hair on my body when the time came to orgasm. This was with the first time I used it. It was with a partner. She performed oral and used the Quickshot simultaneously like intended. I don’t think I she has ever seen my body spasm the way she made me bust. Definitely recommend this toy. It’s the perfect texture, its nice and tight, and it’s easy to clean/store. Also, it’s great for solo acts too. I might enjoy it more than the regular Fleshlight." —Erik

Get it from Amazon for $34.95.

If you're on the hunt for more penis-friendly sex toys, don't worry, we've got you covered!

A discreet case means you can toss it into your tote or carry-on and 11 intensities mean you can experience a different kind of pleasure at home or on the go, you know?

Promising reviews: "This is my favorite toy. Pure magic! Orgasm guaranteed. Small yet powerful, the design is very discreet and convenient in all senses, so it is great for traveling. This toy has a powerful motor, I never have to go past level 3-4." —Liz

"This is the unicorn!!!! Not kidding I'm not exaggerating when I say absolutely the most powerful, intense, mind blowing orgasms I have ever ever ever ever ever had!!!!!" —Susan Bellantonio

Get it from Amazon for $43.49.

BTW, it's waterproof!

Promising review: "I love this toy. It’s extremely intense. I’m on T therapy and have experienced a lot of clitoral growth and size over the past two years. So when I saw how big the opening was I couldn’t wait to try it. I enjoy my clit being highly stimulated. Which the Baci does well. I could actually use a few more higher settings. Maybe a turbo in the controls. I’m looking forward to my nights alone." —Miguel R.

Get it from Lora DiCarlo for $160.

I ran the Aer for a test drive and it's suuuuper powerful, but the buttons are a little difficult to find in the dark. Having tried a lot of "suction" toys, I like the fact that this one has a larger opening than most and is the most functional for holding during solo or partnered play. Also, the patterns run separately from the intensities, so you can actually make each one a little more intense and figure out what you like the most!

Promising reviews: "Love how simple and compact this is! So much fun to use with my partner and for myself, I feel like I am reclaiming my power!" —Sierra S.

"I was a bit skeptical about whether this would do anything for me or not, but this is a fantastic little tool to add to your tool kit, alone or with a partner. It's a little noisy, but you can forgive that after the way it makes you feel. The ability to change intensities and patterns is great. I would highly recommend giving this a go." —Olivia B.

Get it from Dame for $95.

This masturbator is designed with waterproof silicone, which offers effortless cleaning before and after. It also includes a convenient charging station that also quick dries your toy between uses. FYI, the website states it takes at least 5 uses to get the hang of the Arcwave Ion, so make sure you test it thoroughly.

Promising reviews: "If I wrote this review a week ago I would have given it 1 star. It takes a few sessions and practice to find that sweet spot but once you do… I thought my brain was going to explode. Now I just let myself go and let Ion do its thing and it's a long-lasting orgasm every time." —Ron_88

"Love blowjobs? Then this is the toy for you. No toy comes close to the Ion in terms of delivering that singular feeling of someone sucking/licking the head of your cock and it's a great use of the air pressure tech you're seeing in more and more sex toys. Really hoping that they make more versions of this and improving on the premise. BTW use a lot of lube." —NickyDubs

"Perfect for me…but understandable if it's not for everyone. For me, I love being stimulated on the head of my penis, and that's where Arcwave focuses the pleasure. It's also not designed for traditional pulling-on-your-penis stimulation a la masturbating and if you prefer that, then you're likely better off sticking with your trusty ol' hand. With enough lube for easy and comfortable insertion, the Arcwave will feel just like there's someone sucking and licking on the head of your penis — and who doesn't like that?" —DJ

Get it from Wow Tech or Amazon for $199.

...to come on the other side. 🐣🐥Also, why does this vibrator have CAKES? I need it.

Promising review: "This is by far, my favorite toy. It definitely does the trick. All the settings and options! Oh my!! Highly recommend!" —Heidi

Get it from Emojibator (originally $89) or Amazon for $74.

Emojibator products are designed with love in Philadelphia and include novelty sex toys inspired by fruits and emojis.

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This little toy has an ergonomic design for easy handling and six vibration modes to blow your mind.

Promising review: "I. LOVE. THIS. TOY. I work in an adult store, and have tried just about every toy you can imagine. I'm really big on direct rumbly clitoral stimulation and regularly use the Hitachi/Vibratex magic wand. I actually PREFER the Womanizer Pro40 over my magic wand. My womanizer not only gets me off faster than the magic wand but it also doesn't numb me out (aka overstimulate the nerves) so the toy can be used for foreplay...or during...or even after sex and it's waterproof so you can bring it in the bath. It's not a silent toy, but it's definitely quieter than my magic wand...so I'm happy! The sensation feels what I can only describe as a blow job for the clitoris. It's not quite a suction, but it does have a very light push and pull of air inside the device. It feels amazing, and as stated doesn't numb you out (which is shocking considering how intense the orgasms it produces are). The controls are easy to use, it's rechargeable, it fits comfortably in the hand, it's small enough that it's easy to travel with, and it honestly looks like a facial cleaning brush (three cheers for discreet toys!). There is nothing, I don't like about this product. Get one. NOW." —Dovahqueen

Get it from Amazon for $89 (available in four colors).

I'm a writer, so of course I tried out a sex toy called The Poet when I had the chance. And lemme tell you, it rocked my world. Here's the thing, most suction vibrators just increase in intensity and then you cycle back through until you find your favorite one. But not this one. Yes, there are five pulsation modes (all of which are delectable), but the real selling point is the sensor squeeze technology, which allows you to adjust the intensity of the suction based on grip...and you can even lock it once you've found the perfect one! It's a little loud (especially when not against the body) and there's a bit of a learning curve with the squeezing, but it's lovely, trust me. Finally—this sex toy includes three interchangeable tips (which makes cleaning a breeze), so you can find the size that feels right and fits best for you!

Promising review: "I was excited to try it out and it did not disappoint! This isn't the first clit suction toy I've used, but I honestly loved how unique it looked and felt on me. The sensors on the sides were a really cool feature and the mouth shape felt oh so lovely. I don't know how else to describe it but I really love this toy. It's easily one of my favorites!" —Gillian P.

Get it from Smile Makers for $129.

Promising review: "I'm a trans man who has been on testosterone for 10 months. I haven't had too much clitoral growth associated with testosterone so I was worried about the hole being too large for me to fit in, but it works really well! I definitely encourage buying this product." —H.d.H

"I absolutely loved this with lube. It is so squishy and soft it almost felt like my girlfriend was deep throating me even though she wasn't. It's easy to clean and its material is pretty durable. Feels great and a great masturbation aid too other than just using it for getting BJ's with it. 10/10" —Antonio R.

Get it from Amazon for $8.26.

Promising review: "The Sila is a great addition to my toy box. Its shape is great for solo and partnered play. It has a lot of variation in speeds and patterns. It is also very easy to clean which is a major plus for me. Very happy with my purchase." —D.

Get it from Spectrum Boutique or Lelo for $169 (available in three colors).

Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.

In case you like to take your good vibes on the go, this travel-friendly vibrator has a waterproof design and magnetic cover. It also includes an extra stimulator head in another size, so you can make sure this toy fits your body perfectly.

Promising reviews: "First up, the colors are so cute! I know some people like their toys to be a bit more neutral but this toy just reminds me of Lily — confident and cool! And it feels as good as it looks. I had to change the head of the toy to other size that came in the box and now it's legit the perfect fit for me!" —Jessy

"This toy seems to go and go and go! I've already used it a few times and still haven't had to recharge it yet. I love switching through the intensity levels. It keeps you on edge and then sends you sky-high before you even know it!" —RachaelABC

Get it from Womanizer for $79.20 (originally $99) or Amazon for $99 (available in five colors).

It's waterproof and has five intensity levels to help you ease your way to orgasm...if you want.

Promising reviews: "HOLY F-WORD. Literally, babes. 30 seconds is all it took 😍 10/10 — especially if you’re a fan of oral and/or 'magic bean' stimulation. The only thing I’d ever change is the amount or intensity of the air that comes out. I love it anyway though, def gets the job done ;)" —Sophia B.

"I've been on T for 9 months now and this vibe suctions my bottom growth super well. Very quiet as well! Can use any time of day as long as the fan is on. Charges fast." —Melody Nova

Get it from Amazon for $29.98.

Promising review: "This is my first time trying a toy like this. I didn't know whether it would be a comfortable fit but it worked out surprisingly well. Even though it is small, the vibrations get very intense. I was feeling aftershocks long after a spicy shower session. It's also fairly quiet. My favorite part by far though is the adorable design. Even the placement of the charger is cute. I had so much fun using this toy. definitely recommend." —c.w.

Get it from Honey Play Box for $35.99 (originally $47.99).

Like other We-Vibe products, the Melt is waterproof and compatible with the We-Connect App, allowing for remote play and access to more intensity options.

Promising reviews: "I've had a Womanizer for several years and love it. When I heard that there is a device with the same technology but with more features for partner play, I ran, literally ran to my Macbook and bought it. Very wise decision." —111_womanizer

"I consider myself a connoisseur of clitoral air toys ;-) and this one is incredible as it delivers multiple orgasms easily. It's easy to hold, the buttons are not too hard to find with wet fingers, it charges quickly and the settings have something for everyone. I'm partial to the low rumbling vibes/suction (settings 4 and 5) but if you prefer something more buzzy, the higher settings should please you. I did notice quite a jump in sensation between settings 3 and 4 so if you have an ultra sensitive clit, be mindful when increasing from setting 3. Try holding it horizontal for a different sensation. The We-Connect App works well and is fun to use. Treat yourself or someone else as you can't go wrong with this guy!" —Claire V.

Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $149 (available in pink and midnight blue).

Enough people asked me, a sex toy writer, about the Rose that I finally decided to try it. Um, this thing is POWERFUL. The Rose is very easy to hold in the palm of your hand or place in your panties if you wanted. I really enjoyed it, and it definitely delivers a lot of squirm for its size...10 functions is more than enough. 😅 I would encourage using a water-based lube liberally around the opening of the toy, which is what I did, so the pulsation intensities aren't too much for the sensitive clit. Also, clean it thoroughly with a toy cleaner or antibacterial soap — those little petals can be difficult.

Promising reviews: "This is the first and only toy that has made me squirt! I didn’t know it was possible!! Gift yourself, and all of your girlfriends. It’s a must-have." —Flowerchild

"I never write reviews… But this truly got the job done!!! When I tell you it took less than five minutes! I definitely underestimated this toy. You really need this; it’s a game changer!" —Emily B.

Get it from Peepshow Toys for $39.99 (available in red and pink).

Peepshow Toys is an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique that promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and non-toxic materials.

The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.